Sunday, June 23, 2013

#TheStruggleIsReal

Or at least as real as I'm willing to bitch about.


Basically, it works like this:

You grow up learning to be limitless.

Every adult implores you to explore your passions, 

and you grow up thinking that anything is possible.

You grow older,

and realize that you aren't an athlete,

or a history buff,

or whatever you suck at.

You keep growing up,

and you realize something:

You can't possibly be limitless.

The entire Earth is built around limits,

like Calculus.

You go along this line,

growing exponentially old,

but the limit exists.

And no matter how hard you push,

no matter how much value you pile onto yourself,

there's a point in life that you can't pass.

And then you keep growing up,

and you get funneled into mass tests where you're appraised as a commodity.

You score numbers on these tests and someone reads them,

feigning interest,

and you're told by this person what you're good at.

They tell you,

a child that they have never met,

what career you'll have,

which subjects you'll excel at,

etc.

But they never tell you what your passion will be,

and they never tell you who you'll idolize.

They won't tell you that you'll be a middle-class white boy that loves rap,

or a gay male that just wants to treat a woman to a nice night out.

They don't tell you that you'll change your mind on EVERYTHING.

That you'll grow up wanting to be a doctor,

then a lawyer,

then a doctor,

and an artist,

and actor,

and musician,

and psychologist,

and all of the above.

But you're forced to listen to them.

Because that's "life".

Or what people seem to think it is.

...................

Of course, that isn't life.

It's just what you're told it is.

Life is way, way beyond that.

But nobody will ever tell you that.

You have to actively seek out interests,

passions,

loves.

You have to force yourself to audition for a show,

to audition for drumline,

to sing,

to revel in something that you just might like,

even if it isn't recommended by the suits.

You have to be willing to recognize that the system is flawed,

that,

if you listen to the adults,

you lose.

You lose literally everything that you once believed in.

You lose that limitless belief.

You lose the idea of freedom,

the idea of choice.

You look up, finding yourself somewhere you don't recognize.

You lose the feeling of creation that you once had.

You go over to your childhood friend's house,

but the magic isn't there.

The backyard isn't a secret agent's hideout.

It's grass,

and dirt,

and test scores.

And your entire worth as a student is gauged by a 32,

and a 1960,

and a 4.0,

and a collection of classes.

And you stop, and finally, in the fucking depth of summer, realize something.

.................................

You look back at your life,

barely lived,

with no risks,

and no parties,

or mistakes.

You hate what you see,

but love your success.

And you come to terms with the idea that, no,

you aren't what your grades say.

You're so much more.

And you're told in college that you don't have to worry about being a test score,

or having to let go of things you love to fit in a class third tri.

But you don't believe that,

because that's how high school was supposed to be.

And you are so fucking terrified.

You're scared of leaving,

and being torn between passion and success,

like always,

and you're terrified of five-figure debt,

which is unavoidable.

.........................................

Going back to the "being more than your schooling".


You realize that, even though you took little risk,

nobody else did.

You were all collectively fucked by adults.

Because leaving no child behind just holds others back.

So you stop crying about the lack of parties,

and wild nights,

like your parents talked about.

You look back and love thirteen shows,

and ten years of music,

and learning to tap,

and singing,

and kissing,

and loving,

and, of course, being a sassy bitch.

Because this is still my blog, sluts.

But you stop crying and you start thinking.

About how you can fight this notion of selection,

of choosing this or that.

You realize that, and I apologize in advance for this,

your family's opinions literally mean jack shit.

Because maybe you aren't a doctor,

or a lawyer,

or whatever.

Maybe you don't know what you are.

And you have time.

We all have time.

...........................................

I'm going to end this stream of consciousness with this:

I'm scared shitless.

I've been lied to about life,

forever,

and that's ok.

Because,

even if I can't be anything I want,

I can be anything I love.

So no, I'm not limitless.

As my friend's father said,

I lack a rock-climber's body.

(They're thin, and I am meaty.)

But I don't have limits.

Does that make sense?

Nope.

But neither does life,

so fuck you.


I'm going to go do what I love,

and have fun doing it,

and somehow make money to live.

One step at a time.











Friday, June 21, 2013

If this blog was a baby, it would be so dead right now.

Hi, my name is Sam, and you may know me as the person who used to have a pretty OK blog but then stopped posting because he can't remember ever.

But hey, it's whatever.



I guess it's time for an update/rant/post:

I graduated, so that.

I watched as a bunch of my classmates walked across a makeshift stage to receive an empty folder that would later contain a diploma for liability reasons.

You know, the usual graduation stuff.

I spoke at Baccalaureate, which is just graduation church or something.

And my speech was the best I've ever given, because I let go and wrote something legitimately personal.

AND GUESS WHAT, IT OFFENDED PEOPLE.

It actually wasn't even offensive at all though.

It was titled "Faith: The Final Frontier"

It was about faith, obviously. 

It circulated around the idea that no matter what faith we have, we all share the common idea of faith. 

I mentioned how some people don't believe in God, but that they have faith in themselves or an idea.

It was tastefully done, with a very personal spin.

That thing was my baby. Like, I nursed it and everything. It was pretty weird.

My mom actually walked into the room while this was happening, and was all like

"Sam, why are you nursing the computer?!"

And I was like

"OMG MOM YOU DON'T EVEN UNDERSTAND MY CREATIVE PROCESS"


But regardless of my creative process, that shit was my shit.

And do you know what happened right after I gave the speech?


"NO SAM OMG PLEASE TELL US"


OK, I'll tell you guys!

A girl, who will remain nameless, approached me.

She said

"I didn't like your speech. I didn't agree with it."

COOOOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

SOOOOOO COOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLL

Guess what?

I honestly don't give a flying fuck what you think about my speech.

Seriously though.

Why would you ever do that?

Saying that you don't agree with my speech is basically saying that you don't believe that anyone's faith can matter, because that's what I talked about.

And, additionally, you don't just say that shit to people.

It was a big night for a lot of us, especially those who went on stage to speak in the service.

So I really just don't understand why you would take any negativity backstage to someone who's just trying to make good with something outside of their comfort zone.

Seriously, fuck you.

If any of you reading this have ever gone directly up to someone after they put their beliefs on the table, expressing a pure and honest idea that they live by, and told them that you didn't like what they said because you think it's wrong,

APOLOGIZE.

It's just a dick move.

/rant

note: Apparently I do give a flying fuck, because I wrote a superfluous rant about it. Oh well.









update:

Lately, I've been a mix of busy and mind-crushingly bored.

I'm DJing grad parties now, and making a pretty good business from it.

I'm trying to wrangle financial aid, and money in general. I'm making an utterly mediocre business of it.

But my debt should be reasonable.

And by reasonable, I mean that I'll only have several thousand dollars of debt accumulated after a single year of schooling but HEY, THAT'S LIFE. WELCOME TO AMERICA, WHERE INFLATION INFLATES AND EMPLOYEE WAGES STAGNATE IN A POOL OF CAPITALIST FILTH. ALSO, A PLACE WHERE WORKPLACE EFFORT HAS COLLECTIVELY INCREASED OVER THE LAST TEN YEARS, WHILE MEDIAN EMPLOYEE WAGES REMAIN THE SAME.

Friday, August 24, 2012

an analysis of modern lyrics 1

An Analysis of Modern Lyrics:
PART ONE

1. Beez in the Trap - Nicki Minaj ft. 2 Chainz


"Damn damn, what they say about me?
I Don't know, man. F*ckers on your biscuit.
If I get hit, swingin' on that big bitch,
I don't know, man, I'm shittin' on your whole life."

Obviously, Nicki's haters keep insulting her biscuits, and she's trying to figure out what they're saying by talking to one of her 54378978979345 personalities. Duh:



taken from Nicki's iPhone

2. Scream - Usher



"Now relax and get on your back
If you wanna scream yeah
Let me know and I'll take you there
Get you goin' like ooh baby baby, ooh baby baby
Ooh baby baby, ooh baby
 If you want it done right
 Hope you're ready to go all night"



..........


sweet baby jesus.




3. All You - The Cataracs ft. Kaskade and Waka Flocka

"If I want it, Imma get it.
Send the waitress over,
Quit that boozy shit, girl.
B-Bend that ass over.
Bend that ass over.
B-B-Bend that ass over."

Hey man, I have to agree with Mr. Flocka Flame here. No bitch of mine is going to act boozy when she has a perfectly good ass to swing around the club like a booty-powered helicopter. 

This, my friends, is the face of a sage man:






Monday, July 2, 2012

UPDATE:


It's been too long, Blog! I haven't seen you in ages! 







Well, I suppose I should just spout miscellaneous facts in hopes to get all of you up to speed. Here goes:




1. I'm about lead basically everything next year, which means I'll need to be nice to people, which means I'll probably need a prescription to Prozac. So....somebody get on that.




2. I've been cooking a lot lately because I like food and needed a hobby that wasn't hating republican candidates. I'll post recipes and whatnot on here because, well, I can.

3. In all honesty not a whole lot has been going on. OH except I saw Magic Mike the other day.....definitely needed more men in assless chaps.









this was shockingly lacking.



Tuesday, January 24, 2012

democracy, not bigotry.

there are few things that truly make me feel sick to my stomach.


the other is the seemingly inevitable turn towards conservative bigotry and intolerance of differing cultures/ideals in american society.


i was recently confronted with this photograph on the virtual planes of facebookland:


this is one of those things where i shouldn't even have to explain the flaws in the above abomination of modern society.

1. america was built on the foundation of accepting immigrants. examples: pilgrims, religious refugees, our ancestors, etc.



 
2. "Language : English!"
...



3. the constitution =/= culture.
culture is actually one of the many things that whoever penned this list is gratuitously lacking. culture is acceptance. the ability to let in the extravagant and accept that which you do not let in - THAT is culture. not this conservative bullshit mumbo-jumbo about hating immigrants and closing borders and speaking english. culture is something that changes a person; it's something that reignites patriotic passion while taking logical political steps forward. culture is culture. it isn't bigotry, or ignorance, or anything even similar to the aforementioned attributes. culture is what america needs, what the youth needs, and what the world needs.



 
4. "No Freebies To : Non-Citizens!".
...just stop. you've stopped making logical points,
you've lost any validity that you thought you had.
you're done.
you lose the argument.




it's an unfortunate, heartbreaking thing, the destruction of american ideals. the sheer, tyrannical truth of the matter is astounding and terrible: if we don't change, we're going to perish. as a nation. as a people. as society and as man. 



we need culture.
we need acceptance.
and we need it now.